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Ecstatic Dancing Lets Me Channel Elaine Benes

Press Ecstatic dancing has been around for ages, but the latest iteration is all about shimmying, shaking, and sashaying with abandon, especially when you feel anxious, disconnected, or depressed. “The idea is to allow your body to move freely and expressively to the...

Is Everyone Out Here Lying To Their Therapist?

Press According to Carrie Torn, LCSW, a licensed therapist in North Carolina, there are multiple reasons why people might lie to their therapist. “One is that once we say something out loud, it can feel more real and true,” she tells Bustle. In that case, it's easier...

The Enneagram Compatibility Pairings That (Supposedly) Make the Best Matches

PressHow Does Enneagram Compatibility Work? "First and foremost," Carrie Torn, LCSW, explains, "knowing your own Enneagram type allows you to gain insight into why you do what you do…, our patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving, and, perhaps more importantly, the...

“Glimmers” Can Bring You A Mini Spike Of Joy — Here’s How

Press “By training your mind to look for glimmers, you are appreciating the simple joys and moments of everyday life,” says Carrie Torn, LCSW, a licensed therapist in North Carolina. “You often can develop a greater appreciation for the present moment, relationships,...

Why You Should Go Out When You Want to Stay In (Again), According to a Psychiatrist

PressIs going out good for anxiety? Carrie Torn, LCSW, is a psychotherapist based in North Carolina. She says that often, the more we avoid the thing we are anxious about, the worse it gets. “If we choose not to go out due to our anxiety, we are reinforcing the...

Practicing Self-Compassion: How the “Golden Rule” Gets it Wrong

How the Golden Rule gets it wrong... Most of us grew up learning  the infamous ???????????????????????? ????????????????: “Treat others how you want to be treated”. It's a great concept, yet we never learned perhaps an even more important rule: how to treat ourselves...

Well + wise: No such thing as perfect

PressLocal therapist Carrie Torn, who specializes in helping high achievers who struggle with anxiety and burnout, weighs in: “A piece of perfectionism that we tend to miss is the underlying fear of what other people think of us and a desire for approval. We strive...

What To Do When Imposter Syndrome Creeps In

PressBe kind to yourself Carrie Torn, a licensed clinical social worker, pointed to the importance of practicing self-love. “Rather than relying on criticism as a motivator, self-compassion enables us to be resilient,” she said. Additionally, Torn noted that...

Is People Pleasing a trauma response?

As with most things, ????????'???? ???????????????????????????????????????????? ???????????? ???????? ????????????????????????????. I've been seeing a lot of information recently about people pleasing being a trauma response, and while it CAN be, it can also develop...

Myth Busting: Self-Compassion Edition

Let’s do some myth-busting! People are often resistant to. practicing self-compassion due to one of these misconceptions about what self-compassion involves or what it says about you. The research supports that self-compassion is one of the biggest indicators of...

Myth Busting: Self-Compassion Edition

Let’s do some myth-busting! People are often resistant to. practicing self-compassion due to one of these misconceptions about what self-compassion involves or what it says about you. The research supports that self-compassion is one of the biggest indicators of...

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EMDR explained

EMDR seems to be everywhere these days. Even Prince Harry has done EMDR therapy! So, what exactly is EMDR????????? ???????????????? ???????? ????????????????? ⁣EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. EMDR is an evidence-based treatment used in...

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how to tame the inner critic

We all have a critical part of ourselves, I know I do. And for those of you who identify as high achievers, perfectionists or highly sensitive, the inner critic tends to be LOUD. Instead of trying to ignore it, repress it or make...

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Psychotherapy for PTSD: What Are the Best Options?

Psychotherapy for PTSD: What Are the Best Options?

Press1. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) EMDR is a nontraditional form of psychotherapy, but one that seems to work effectively at treating the symptoms of PTSD. According to Carrie Torn, a psychotherapist working in Texas and North Carolina, EMDR...

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How to Support Friends Struggling with Burnout

How to Support Friends Struggling with Burnout

PressCarrie Torn, a licensed clinical social worker and therapist, recommends providing tangible support to friends dealing with burnout. “Burnout is more than stress,” Torn explains. “It is usually the cumulative stress that turns into exhaustion, anxiety, depression...

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five tips for coping with holiday stress

#1: Create time for mini check-in’s with yourself throughout the day. As cliche as it sounds, it’s helpful to “name it, to tame it” by checking in with yourself and working to label your feelings. Feelings are meant to be felt after all.  Keep in mind that...

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why everyone is so obsessed with deep-breathing

Ever felt annoyed when someone said "just take a deep breath"? ⁣⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁣⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I have.⁣ Yet, our breath can be our biggest ally. ⁣⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⁣⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Did you know breathing is one of the only functions of the body that is both involuntary and voluntary?We can...

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